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A Nigerian Lady, took to her facebook page to share a relationship advice which she also tagged an ‘unpopular opinion’.

The lady advised her fellow ladies not to turn down a date from a man because they have a boyfriend, and even if the man wants to be more than friends, the lady should politely say ”No i am not interested” as opposed to the conventional ”I have a boyfriend”

Read her post below ;

Ladies, when a man ask you out on a date, do not decline because you have a boyfriend. Going out on a date is not to ‘make out’ but a friendly offer for the purpose of getting to know you better and be friends moving forward.

Do not send good people out of your lives because you have a boo who probably has a boo.

Even if a man wants you to be his lover, do not say,” I have a boyfriend”, just say a polite “no, I am not interested”.

Let everything you do be about you and because of you. There are women who are married, who say “I am married” and have lovers anyway.

So, be friendly, polite, respectful and firm. A decent man will not force it.

I have great expectations this week and I pray your week goes according to plan.
Cheers you all.
This message is an unpopular opinion,
It is for the disciplined,smart and wise people..
Not for everybody

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Don’t Keep Scores





You called him yesterday, so he is next to call you, you wake up missing him, you feel like hearing his voice, but instead, you are sitting there looking at your phone angrily and waiting for him to call.

You took her out last time, so it’s her turn to take you out.

You chatted her up last time, it’s his turn to chat you up next

You told him the last “I love you” so it’s now his turn, otherwise you won’t……

This is what we call keeping scores.




Keeping scores is immature and can lead to secret resentments, bitterness and the end of an otherwise good relationship.

Do things for your spouse when you feel/know you should, irrespective of who “did” last time.

Want them to reciprocate?.
Tell them.
Be patient.
Don’t nag.
Love them.

And let’s not forget to balance this.

Our spouses shouldn’t keep scores, we in the other hand should always reciprocate.

As a Rule, anything your spouse does for you, do the same for them.

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