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How To Keep Your Sex Life Healthy before or In Marriage

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Sex does not have to get boring in a long-term marriage. As the years go by, your intimate relationship should get better. Sex with your partner can become more satisfying because you know each other’s likes, dislikes, habits, and preferences.We know that life can get in the way. Chores, kids, finances, and other issues can put a damper on romance.

These everyday factors can interfere with both your desire for sex and finding the time to put in the effort. But don’t put sex last on the to-do list. There are ways to prioritize sex and keep it exciting.

There are different ways to keep things fun and exciting in the bedroom. Try any of these techniques to keep sex with your spouse satisfying for both of you.

Good Communication

Communication is the key to a healthy and active sex life in a marital relationship, so talk with one another more! Chatting about superficial things can be fun, but remember to go deeper in order to really establish intimacy. Share your innermost thoughts and feelings with one another regularly.

Sexual intimacy is a continuing process of discovery. True intimacy through communication is one of the things that can make sex great.

Share Desires and Expectations

Talk openly and share your sexual desires. Be open and honest about what you want. You don’t want to use this time to be critical of your partner. Just assert what you want in the bedroom and what makes you feel good.

Talk with one another about your expectations concerning lovemaking. False or unmet expectations can hurt your marriage. If your expectations are not being met by your partner, communicate this tactfully and sensitively.

Sex in a long-lasting relationship can deepen and become a richer experience. No matter how many times you have made love to each other, the wonder and awe of mutual attraction can still be there.

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Make a Plan

When life becomes busy and schedules are hectic, plan for sexual encounters with one another. Some people may find scheduling undesirable, but it all depends on how you look at it.

You can make plans just as exciting as spontaneous sex. Flirting throughout the day or specifying a “sex date” can build anticipation.

Try to set the mood in advance. If you want to have good sex at night, start the foreplay in the morning. Let your partner know you care and are thinking about them throughout the day with notes, e-mails, texts, phone calls, hugs, or other flirtatious gestures.

Initiate More Often

Don’t expect your spouse to be the only one in your marriage who is responsible for romance. You both need to take responsibility for having an intimate and successful relationship.

Hold hands and show affection often. Women particularly need to feel loved and connected in order to have the desire for sex. Make time for date nights and other novel activities together and be open to trying new things!

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  1. Megamind

    August 13, 2019 at 3:00 pm

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HELP! My Husband Doesn’t Suck My Nipples During S*x anymore

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I am so depressed writing this to you, I have just been married for a year and our sxual life seems like it is crumbling. My husband suddenly stopped having sx with me, even on the days he will, he will just put his d*ck inside me and cum.

No romance, no foreplay, everything is just so bland. And I enjoy adventure in bed. I have tried so many times to ask him why the sudden change in his behaviour towards me, he said nothing that he is only tired.

I am s*xually frustrated, I don’t get turned on anymore, he doesn’t even suck my nipples when he is making love to me. What will I do, I am tired of enduring.

I am not even asking for much, just sx, ordinary sx he can’t offer, what if I start demanding for something very difficult, what will he do? What is the best approach to handle this, because I have just reconnected with my ex, I don’t want to do something stupid. 

The annoying thing is he enjoys s*x while we were dating, and the sudden change in his behaviour is very suspicious, I even think he is cheating. I am tired. 

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